I am a doctoral student, a history professor, and a wheelchair user. I am frustrated by the assumption that I am somehow rejecting the "disability community" by trying to lead an ordinary life. I fought to be included for many years, but the argument always was, "You should be with your peers [meaning other students with disabilities]." I am an Eagle Scout, a playwright, and a professor—refusing to live my life as thermometer-wielding experts would have defined it. I was blessed with a wise and loving mother, and grandparents who showed me how to advocate and provided the emotional support and love I needed. Kathie, your work sustains me: when I am drained and worn out, I recall the experiences of your son, Benjamin, and the information on your website. It helps more than I can say.

Sean Dineen, New Jersey