Why do people seem to look at me as if I have two heads when I tell them about my son's hopes and dreams? I've always believed in my son, D'Mitri, and have encouraged him to dream big and to try his best before thinking he can't do something.
D'Mitri recently graduated from high school and his last IEP meeting was self-directed. He explained what he wanted for his future: a real job in the community, his own place to live, to own his own business one day, and to have a wife and three children. Why did some of the people at the IEP meeting tell him he needs to go to a workshop and also try to manipulate him to attend a "transition program for the visually-impaired" that's 100 miles away from our community? My son had a great high school experience with a community-focused teacher and I thought our days of fighting the system were over—wrong!
Now, however, I'm happy to report that after D'Mitri left the high school, he applied for a job at a nearby elementary school, and is now employed at one of his top three choices of jobs. He continues to dream big—focused on a business venture and moving into his own place.
I work hard to encourage other parents to dream big for their children. I work in community employment and see people with disabilities succeed in the community when they have the supports they need. And that's my motto: "Anything is possible with the right supports."
I wanted to say THANK YOU, Kathie. I attended one of your presentations, and you reinforced my belief that I'm not being unrealistic in believing my son can be a valuable member of his community.
Brenda Justi, proud mother of D'Mitri Justi |